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Resentment

Anger that has moved from a single episode into a lasting disposition, usually directed at a specific person with a sense of accumulated unfairness.

unpleasantmoderate activation

How it shows up

Resentment builds when grievances are not resolved: unequal workloads at home, a slight never acknowledged, a pattern of being taken for granted. It often shows up as a running mental tally, coldness, or replaying old scenes. It can keep alive a sense that something unfair needs addressing. What sets it apart is its persistence; it is anger that has become a disposition, often toward one particular person.

How it differs from Anger

Anger often burns at a single episode; resentment is anger that has settled into a lasting disposition built from accumulated unfairness.

Notice

Notice whether there is someone you keep a quiet tally about, and what the first entry was.

Where it is felt

Felt most in the chest, stomach and head.

Based on Nummenmaa et al. (2014), bodily maps of emotions, and related research. The map shows where people report bodily sensation, on average; individual experience varies.